Tuesday Funday

Mr.S and I had plans to see each other today. He texted me in the morning about how he feel lost..in my head I'm thinking WTF I'm not up for this. He clarified it has nothing to do with us but it's about work. I guess work isn't going so well, I didn't ask him for the specifics but probably will later this week. I expressed a little bit of concern and said "That's sucky"- which I think is enough lol. He handles everything for me so I need him to know if the money aint coming in then something will change. He texted "you're great to look forward to"- Soon as I saw it I thought ohhhh craaaap, so much for having a relaxing day, I actually have to put in some extra work and give him a little pick me up.
I mean that's in our book right? When our SD is having a bad week, I think we should always put in a little extra work. As creative as I am..Not..

I went through my lingerie drawers, found a super cute corset he bought be this summer but I have not worn yet...I wore it without the belt as shown in the pics. It also came with a cute pair of boy short lace panties. Man did I look hot once I had it together with my heels on, hair and make up done. I made a bubble bath, light up the bathroom with candle- it was so cute. His favorite dessert is Rice krispies treats- thank God/ so easy to make. I had all the ingredients and made it for him. I told him to bring over lunch, a bottle, and some weed.
I opened the door in my lingerie, we embraced, 10 secs later he said his day just got sooo much better. Instead of him mauling me lol I played a dominant role, got him in my bedroom...let's just say we got a bit kinky haha. After sex, we ate lunch together and talked, we took a bath (more sex), went back to bed/ cuddled/sex/tv until he got the cue that I wanted him out. I took him away from his problems for a bit, gave him a little motivation, he left a happy man with a huge zip lock bag full of rice krispies.

Me No Tech-Savvy

Hey lovers!

So I've received a few emails about not being able to Follow the blog because...there's no Follow Me button!!! lol. I know there's the regular Follow..and there's Following with Google Friend...
Maybe it's because of the Dynamic layout I have...I think I've ran into the same problem in other blogs I've visited.
SO...last night I tried finding a way to get a Follow me link in the blog and no success. I felt all techy and went into areas I didn't know existed in blogger and all that good stuff.
If anyone have any idea how to get around that, please email/write and let me know...Other wise I might switch up the layout, once again.

Xoxo

Transitioning from Sugar

I'm slowly and surely missing being out in the Sugar search. Maybe if I had 2 SD's I wouldn't miss it so much..hmmm let me stop lol. I've realized how hard it is and will be when you have to make the transition from Sugar dating to regular dating. Sugar daddies can sometime set the bar SO high that it's impossible to find someone to meet up to your standards. Of course I want a man who's successful, handsome (in the sense that I'm attracted to him), caring, honest, generous, and able to provide stability plus more. In a nutshell I want a man with all the sugar daddy characteristics without being a sugar daddy...does that make sense?? And I'm not using the term "without being a sugar daddy" loosely. I've heard stories about sugar babies who have ben engaged to their guy, or been married, or in situations where he left the wife to be with them...it might all seem like a fairy tale..but sometime you might just be fooling yourself...but we also have the exception to the rules.

When you're dating a guy, how do you determine his wealth? I know many women goes by what kind of watch he wear, living arrangements, clothing etc..but every guy is different. For me it has to be a combination of everything. He doesn't have to own 2 houses, as long as he has a nice enough place..He doesn't need to have 3 Rolex, he might not be a big watch guy..but he has to wear quality clothes- not talking high end but quality. The places a guy takes you on dates also tell a bit about him..I'm not expecting a 5 star experience every time but if you're taking me to your local pizza or Italian place all the time..EH. And he has to show some kind of generosity towards me. This is a really hard one because now a day not many men practice this. Sure they might be trying to make sure that she's in for the right reason but if after a few months she's still around and head over heels for you, dude, she not going nowhere so show your freaking appreciation.

This is what kind of happened between myself and the Cardiologist. He's a really nice guy, 47, not bad looking, a little boring haha but I work with it, alone, never been married, no kids, parents are praying for him everyday that he meet someone lol. I've never been sure about him and he has somehow fell in the friend zone. We've had some great dinners and conversations. Went shopping once cause I wanted to give him a slight makeover, he offered to buy me something, it was weird. He has always admired everything about me, from omg nice shoes and bags to jewelry and asking me if they were gift to me blah blah blah. If you're so concern about who's giving me what..maybe you should make a move and give me something...I never told him that but probably should have lol. He doesn't initiate anything and I was always on the fence about sleeping with him in case he's only trying to bed a 20 something. Long story short..we've been seeing each other for close to 1yr now and it's just been that. He's in the friend zone and I'm not sure if he'll get out of it. I want a man to serenade me, especially if they're older..they're suppose to be great at that stuff. I take precaution with older men because you can never be sure if they're just trying to bed you. Compared to if I'm dating someone a bit around my age where it's who cares, you come a dime a dozen.

NYC

I'm feeling very happy. Things are looking up, and my relationships are getting back on track. Mr.S and I spent a day in NYC. We had tickets to a Jay-Z concert in Brooklyn. It was perfect. We took the train together, talked business, flirted the whole time and was extra lovey dovey (we always are lol). Stayed at a nice hotel, took me shopping on 5th ave and Madison ave. We went to Saks, I got a Chanel Perfume- Chance, he helped me chose it. We went to LV, I got the exact duffle bag I wanted. It's being shipped to me will arrive on Monday, I'm so psyched! Even though I can't travel with it when visiting my fam because it will deff raise questions. He got himself a new LV wallet. He was so excited about it that he switched wallets right there and then. I got this new leather jacket for the fall, the sale guy who was helping me knew my style too well. He found the perfect jacket for me, a few other ones he showed me were quite pricey- about $1600..I didn't look at the price tags till I saw Mr.S either looking at it or maybe the brand/size.. but hey it's Saks. The one I loved turned out to be about 900, which was perfect. I wanted to get some shoes but we were running out of time, plus he had spent enough on me for a day. I admired some Chanel bags just to give him some ideas for the upcoming holiday. I had left my hair straightener at home, so he got me a new one- so sweet.The concert was awesome! We went to 48 lounge after, it was dead in there. After getting some apps and drinks there, we went to Cheetahs- it was ok. Deep down I didn't want him to get a lap dance which he didn't. I used to like going to trip clubs with him but my jealousy is at a different level now, I don't want any girls dancing on him. We had  drink and left, and called it a night.

Walking in NYC we had so many eyes on us. He kept mentioning every time a guy checked me out which was a whole lot. Guys were breaking their neck looking, I'm not tooting my own horn but I wasn't dress over the top. I had a really cute bleu navy dress with brown belt, with some cute black boots. When heading back, before getting on the train we stopped at Dunkin's. I was waiting by the exit and this gentleman dressed in a suit with suitcases was checking me out hardcore. We exchanged a few glances and smile, he was really handsome. I felt like he wanted to come over to me and talk but was being a bit shy. I tried checking to see if he had a wedding ring on but it was kind if hard to see. I kept hoping if he come over he'd do it fast before Mr.S comes out. He didn't have the guts and Mr.S came out. oh well.

My site is almost ready. We're tightening it up more. I'd rather spend as much time working to make it perfect than rush the project. Mr.S and I plan on signing contracts on Monday...although I'm waiting to hear back from my ex SD. He's been helping me with the legals and I don't really want to just sign everything without getting an ok from him. He's taking so long to respond to me so we'll see. Mr.S is beginning to be more mentoring. He mentioned now that everything is coming together he's going to boss me around a little and push me toward success!-which I'm 100% ok with. He's giving me some business books he read that I should too. I have a good feeling with how things are going so far and I'm loving being spoiled!