Rich non-exclusive extremely generous boyfriend for Christmas please.

I had a date last night from Match. I'm paying to use the site so figured I might as well take great advantage of it.
He's turning 36 in December. He's european, I'm talking the whole accent, style and everything. Originally from Spain, he's handsome, tall, talks a bit much, and an investment banker. We met for drinks, talked a lot, we have a lot in common and got a bit intimate halfway. He seem really romantic which I love. We had drinks then went back to his place, I wasn't too sure about that move but went anyways. We were holding hands and stuff. He lives in a nice apt, very modern like mine. He poured us some wine, sat down to talk some more and make out some more. I deff felt something for him. It got a little hot and heavy so I decided I should leave. He walked me out and we kissed goodnight.
My problem with him so far---He talk a lot, although he was interested in getting to know me but he seemed a bit really more into himself. He's an investment banker--he say he make his own hours which is awesome but he travels a good amount. Like today he flew to NYC and will be there for a few days. I think he's in NY every other week or something.
He sounds perfect since I'm not looking for anything serious but down the line if it get serious I'm wondering will he make time. I know his career is super important to him so idk. But I'd settle for a rich non exclusive boyfriend for now.
He texted me after I got home and said he want to see me again soon.  we'll see

After I got home, i texted Mr.S who was out in the city with his buddy. We were literally like 10 mns from each other lol. Me on a date and him smoking cigars and partying it up. He wanted to come see me before I went out but was too tired and I'd feel weird going on a date right after I just fucked my Sugar daddy. After I got home he came over but my drunk ass passed out. He kept calling my phone, no answer lol. He was outside my door- mind you he has a key he doesn't keep it on him. So this morning he came over, brought me coffee and breakfast. The sex was amazing! I didn't realize how much i missed him till I saw him. I was grinning like a little kid.
I told him the situation with my suppose bff and he said it doesn't like you guys are going to stay friends. So we're working towards being bff we talk to each other most than we talk to anyone else already.

I'm talking to a few more guys on Match. I need to set up dates.
I'm having such a lazy monday, I'm hungover and just want to crawl into a hole. I need to do so much work for my site but it's going to have to wait till tmrw. I need to drag myself to the gym to lose the extra weight I put on during turkey day.


xoxo

My Shopping Addiction

Ok, I don't have a shopping addiction..but I kind of like that show on Oxygen.
I've recently made a hard decision. Although I haven't act on it yet.
I've decide to sell some of my designer items..to be more specific..handbags and probably a pair of Loubs.
To be honest, the thought of selling them is killing me. I never thought I had such an emotional connection to them until just now. I was talking to my 4 yr old niece and told her what I was thinking and I got really tear eyed and my voice broke down a bit. yeah.
I recently lend my older brother a loan and I hate how much less is in my acct because I gave up some things to save a lot. With the holidays and wanting to pay off my school loans I figured I have to make this kind of sacrifice or get back in the sugar game.
I'm deff asking Mr.S for a raise on my allowance for the new year.
If I sell 3 of my bags..2 LV and one Gucci..Maybe I'll make about 5K from that which would about replace the money I loaned. The bags can always be replaced! I just need to keep telling myself that lol.
I've heard ebay is the place to sell..Anyone ever sold designer items online?
Some of the things I wanna sell are less than a yr old..might sell my duffle which is about a month old maybe I could just take that back to LV..I'll look into that.
I can't wait to head back to my place, I have so much to do these next 3 weeks before I have to head back down here for the holidays.
Hope everyone had a god turkey day :-)
I'm enjoying this time with the family very much..not so much with friends.
I don't have many girlfriends back home besides my bff who all of sudden have been cold and distant towards me. I've been seeing all of my guy friends but her. It was 4 of us bff since middle school, we lost one while in college, one got pregnant and practically have no life, then it was us 2 but she's been acting shady, cold and distant. I'm not sure if it's cause of where I am in my life...but I've always felt some kind of jealousy thing with her. Mind you I'm always picking up checks when we're out, everything I plan that involve her I don't ask her to pitch in bc I want to cover it. After I've told her about my business, she barely seemed interested, phone calls and texts stopped coming in and no answers from her. I asked her if she wants me to bring her weed for thanksgiving and she said yes but with an attitude. I don't smoke but Mr.S remember she does so he reminded me and gave me some for her (he's so thoughtful). I texted her thanksgiving day and said Happy TG day, no answer. It's shady cause she knows I'm here for 2 nights so whatever. I'm learning so much about friendships. My sis who recently got married also have some bad blood between two girls she was really close to. She has her life together at 25, married, great career, a new beautiful house and they've never visited after she's invited them multiple times and haven't answered her calls.
I'm very thankful for my close group of girlfriends from college. They've been happy for me and have always supported what I do. I'm having all of them at my place for a holiday dinner which I'm psyched about! I'm going to focus more on my friendship with them this new year coming up.
Alright I'm done venting lol. But honestly I'm really flabbergasted.



Xoxo

Gobble Gobble!

Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

Regardless of where we all are in this thing we call life, we all have a lot to be thankful for :-)
Give thanks and appreciate what you have.

Spending this much needed time with la familia
I'm very excited to head back to my place next week, work off those pounds I'm going to put on today.
Ladies, let's be smart about our eating, don't over indulge ! lol You'll feel completely awful after.
Mr.S and I going shopping for Christmas deco and such when I get back. We're putting my tree up and I'm excited! we might hire someone to put up the lights.
I have a lot to look forward to but I'm keeping in mind "No expectations, No disappointment"

Sent From Heaven

Mr.S and I spent a great day together. The weather was nice and we decided on going hiking...but we never made it out of my apt. He was all set, with his backpack, brought a bottle of wine, picked up some fruit, and was going to grab a blanket from my place but we ended up not going. We stayed in my place, boozed (now that I'm slowly drink again), watched the new episode of Homeland (we're both committed to this show, it's our 'thing') and sexed it up. It was fun, relaxing, much needed, I orgasmed over and over again cause he took awhile to cum. I didn't mind it. Great workout, I felt refreshed lol. We took a bath and I had my iPad playing on a Pandora station. Sent from Heaven by Keisha Cole came on. I was laying on him in the bath hugged up with the song playing. I didn't think he was listening to it but as soon as he left my place he texted me 'You were sent from heaven'.

How sweet- I did not think he was listening to the music, I know he's not much of the RnB type.

                         

He wants to head to a ski resort in Vermont to ski and spend some time away before Christmas. My only problem is we have been doing a trip every year in January the past few years and I want to keep that going. So we talked about going to Bermuda for a week in January! I'm psyched! It's either Bermuda or Bahamas..I'm leaning towards Bermuda more. I'm not sure if I'm going to have to choose between the Vermont trip or Bermuda but I'd deff prefer warm weather and continue our tradition. Few years ago, we spent a week in FL..unfortunately it was also the week his mom was on her death bed. We ended up staying shorter than plan but it was still an amazing trip. This year was Vegas- best trip of my life. Total Princess experience, spoiled me rotten. This year coming up Bermuda or Bahamas! The shopping is usually a big part of my trips lol..yess I was checking places to shop in both vacation spots. I mean shopping shopping not souvenir shits lol. But I'll settle with just going away instead of this cold weather. Keeping my fingers crossed for BOTH trips.

On my last blog I was super excited for Christmas..until I figured how much I'm going to be spending on gifts. My sisters need to stop popping out babies lol. Too many nieces and nephews. 

On thursday we might have a sleep over so I'm going to try to get him to go to the casino, he always give me money to gamble, and even when I lose he give me what he wins.
I have a great idea for our 3yr anniversary, I have a gift in mind that I know he'd enjoyed but it depends on how I feel. It depends on happy he makes me for the holiday season.

Here are some of the lyrics to Keisha Cole- Sent from heaven

Now you can wait your whole life wondering
When it's gonna come or where it's been.
You may have got your heart broken
A few times in the past
Never last strong as it used to,
Don't feel as good as it used to (before)
And all the things you used to say,
Things you used to do, went right out the door

Oh no more, will you be the one
That's what you tell everyone around you
But you know they've heard it all before
What more can you say
When love won't let you, walk away
And you can't help who you love
And you find yourself giving it away
When you think you're in love

[CHORUS:]
I wanna be the one who you believe
In your heart is sent from (sent from heaven)
There's a piece of me who leaves when you gone
Because you're sent from (sent from heaven)
I wanna be the one who you believe
In your heart is sent from (sent from heaven)
There's a piece of me who leaves when you gone
Because you're sent from (sent from heaven)

www.mytrophygirlfriend.com 

Holla

I should really change the title of my blog because I feel like I have a full time job.
If i'm not with Mr.S I'm on my computer working. I kind of like it. I feel like I have a regular job and Mr.S is my getaway from work when I'm with him, which is a few times during the week; we do fun things so it's all good. My site is going ok, we are trying different marketing techniques without spending money yet. Starting locally seem to make a lot more sense, so we're doing that and also reaching out to the Tri state area. It definitely already feel like a lot of work but I like it, it's a great learning process and I feel such a drive to succeed. Mr.S has a lot going on with his own business, so he hasn't been in 100% in since we launched. It's a busy time for him with the holidays coming up.
Speaking of holidaysssss...I'm so psyched for Christmas! I had the best Christmas last year with him..this year I'm going to let him give me whatever he want and not ask for anything..ok I'm not completely sure yet if I want to do that lol but I want to see how well he can do.
Then there's my bday, and our 3 year anniversary and Vday ! I am head over heels in love with these next few months coming up. I love the Holidays!

I feel like I'm slowly discovering a different world of sugar..as far as networking
I love blogger and don't have any intent on leaving..There's Tumblr..I abandoned my Twitter..And my FB..Instagram..
It's all so much to deal with! They need to stop coming out with social networking things.
For every social networking device I have my real life, my sugar life, and now I have my website to handle like WTf o_o
I'm like a walking gadget.

On a good note I think Mr.S might get me the Mini iPad for Christmas...well he asked me if I wanted it, and I changed the subject..I'm not sure I want it. I don't EVER use my iPad anymore, it's literally just there unless I'm traveling, he said the same thing about his.


I want to thank all who have visited my site, I don't see many outside profiles. Even though we're in the Tri state area, I still would appreciate it if you all would create a profile. Don't wait until our database gets bigger because we're not charging now and those whose sign up now will have free access.
Gosh I sound like an infomercial haha
www.MyTrophyGirlfriend.com

Trophy Girlfriend

Hi loves!!

I have been so busy. My stressed level was very high but thank God for the gym. A good work out calms me down. A few months ago I would just order a large pizza and eat my stress away but now I'm better with controlling that.

On a good note, My website is up!!!! Aaaaghhh!!!! I'm psyched, scared, nervous, anxious, and so much more. I'm mostly nervous. I feel like my site in an inbetweener with Sugar dating and normal dating. I'll explain more.
BUT the website is up!! I'm not charging for it everyone get on it and sign up, it's 100% FREE!!! FOR NOW..Spread the word! We are marketing/advertising and building a great database. I promise there WILL be a lot more members, but we have to start somewhere. So please, get on it and sign up, let your friends know and my followers, please, do criticize me lol. Let me know what you think, I want some feedback.

A little intro:
         I've always wanted to be a 'Trophy Girlfriend'...a trophy girlfriend doesn't necessarily relates to a sugar baby. I had an ex boyfriend who considered me his trophy girlfriend. He wasn't old, or rich. He was around my age and he took pride on being with me because of my intelligence, beauty and confidence.
The term or the idea of a trophy girlfriend also have many stereotypes that comes with it. We're not all bimbos, and gold diggers. People are always so quick to judge. I wanted to create a site that's aimed towards we women who have dreams to accomplish and who are driven by success. We want a man by our side who have the same drive and want to see us succeed. I feel being a Trophy Girlfriend is a step up from a sugar baby. There will come a point in time where we want to find a guy to date who is accomplished but not necessarily an SD but understands the concept. I didn't want to completely rule out the idea of a sugar baby so I did include 'mutually beneficial relationship' as one of the options of the site. Maybe you will meet an SD or you might meet the guy to make you his Trophy Girlfriend then upgrade you to his Trophy Wife- Wouldn't that be lovely? :-)

Like I said, I'm excited and nervous lol.  I'm hoping we do well in the States so I can take it international. I'm not forgetting about my international followers :-)
Soooo check out mytrophygirlfriend .com
give me some feedback, Make a profile, it's easy as 1-2-3. The site is Very user friendly.
Check it out!!! Thanks!